7 Ways to Win a Woman’s Love…

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“Try to become not a man of success, but try rather to become a man of value.”

—Albert Einstein

According to research, a marriage begins to fade after only 18 months. That does not have to be because there are ways to make a marriage flourish and grow.

Much of the problem is that men have a general misunderstanding of women. They think that they are impossible to understand. Some men believe that there is no way to know enough about a woman to develop any kind of a real relationship with them. At the very best, you can hope to get close enough to them for sex on occasions when they are not going through one of their moods, and the rest of the time just tolerate them and keep your distance.

If men only knew how easy it is to win a woman’s Love and to bond with her until she is absolutely your all time best friend, as well as lover, they would be amazed. The reason that is not the case with many men is either that they do not want that kind of relationship or they don’t go to the trouble to learn and apply what it takes to make it happen. I think that I am speaking about most women here but of course, not all. The truth of the matter, I have known women who were more like evil witches, impossible to be with and always made you want to get away from them as fast as you could. I am just thankful that they were other people wives and not mine. There are also men who fit that category.

Most women are good people at heart. Here are 7 Ways to Win a Woman’s Love. Things that can win her heart forever:

1. LOVE: The woman cannot help it. It is the way she is designed. The only thing that will ever win her over is genuine love. If she knows that her man loves her enough to die protecting her, then she is won for life. Love is not like one person who said, “Well I told her I loved her when I married her, and that ought to be enough.” I understand that love is more than mouthing the word, but “I love you.” needs to be said, and it needs to be shown continually. By the way, before, during and after sex does not count.

The best definition of love is found in First Corinthians 13 of the Bible. These are some of the characteristics of love given there:  

• • Love is Joy; loving a woman is expressing the joy of being with her and telling her the joy she gives you.

• • Love is Peace: She needs to know that loving her and having her with you brings peace into your life.

• • Love is Patience: You express patience with her. You are not exactly alike; you do not think exactly alike, and if you did one of you would not be needed.

• • Love is Goodness: Love treats a woman well. She deserves the best treatment of anyone you know. Always show it when alone with her or when in a crowd.

• Love is Gentleness: Love is gentle and shows itself in gentle ways. A woman knows that she is precious to her man and needed for more than just a body because of his gentleness toward her, his gentle touch, embrace or kiss.

2. APPRECIATION: Thank her often for the help she gives you in your life, to make your life better. I am not talking about being a servant. You should also be trying hard to make her life better. It is often the little things she does for you each day. Tell her how much you appreciate it, and she will forever want to please you. However, remember not to expect her to do more for you than you are willing to do for her.

3. PLAY TOGETHER: I realize that it is good for the man to go out with their male companions on occasions, but your wife is your main companion. She is your playmate, and I am not talking in the playboy fashion, I’m talking about games or  places and things that you both enjoy. It is important to know before you marry someone if you have interests in common. For example, I was reading the profile of a single woman the other day around my age (I am single also), and she said she loved the outdoors, boating, scuba diving, the ocean and beach. Those are things that I like also, so we could probably enjoy doing many things together.

4. LET HER KNOW THAT SHE IS SPECIAL: Of course, she is special in bed, but she is also special in many other ways, so let her know. My wife was my all time best friend and very special to me. Let your woman know that you are glad that she is part of your life. Use words to express it but also use actions. Buy her flowers on the right occasions; have dates with her to take her to dinner or a movie or others things that that she is interested in; she loves it when you have things well planned, in advance. I have known people who work all week and then spend the whole weekend watching sports on TV while their wives fiend for themselves. If you think this builds a relationship friend, then you had better think again. She wants to believe that she is the best thing that ever happened to you; let her know she is.

5. TAKE AN INTEREST IN HER INTERESTS AND INCOURAGE HER TO PERSUE THEM: Talk with her about things she is interested in and listen intently to what she tells you. Men often think women are too chatty, but again this is a woman’s nature, especially when she is happy. Men often do not want to talk. If this is you, get over it. Women hate for men not to listen to them and talk with them. It does not have to be just about her; share your own experiences and feeling with her. She loves it when you ask her opinion.

6. DREAM TOGETHER: Plan your life together. Let her share her cares with you. Support her, and encourage her when she feels low. Never make fun her of or her dreams. If you want to make fun, then make fun of yourself. Never agree if she criticizes herself.

7. NEVER OVERLOOK THE LITTLE THINGS: Greet her always with a smile and a kiss wherever you meet. Do not spare kind words. Be polite to her. Always avoid saying anything to her that you might later regret; she may forgive you, but she never forgets. Always tell her how great she looks. Never fail to kiss her good bye or good night. She is your best friend; treat her that way. Hold her hand when you walk together or put your arm around her.

Bonus thought: Women in general like men who are leaders.

Conclusion: Obviously, there are many men who are not looking for a long-term commitment to one woman. They are more interested in just getting their own sexual needs met, but to those who are interested in others and their needs and who have character, then the above can be the way to find more meaning and joy in your life than you ever imagined. I hope this has been a help for you to discover How to Win a Woman’s Love.

I have great confidence in the progress you are going to make. If you would like the greatest help in building relationships, first learn how to have a relationship with God.

About the author: Jimmie Burroughs is a motivational speaker and author who’s been involved in teaching Christian Personal Development for more than 30 years. He is a dedicated believer in Jesus Christ and considers helping others his calling in life. His websites contains over 600 articles on preparing yourself for success and better living through personal development.

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